The Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When Planning an Elopement (And How to Avoid Them)

The Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When Planning an Elopement (And How to Avoid Them)

Eloping sounds simple, right? Pick a beautiful location, say your vows, and live happily ever after.

But once couples start planning, they quickly realize something surprising:

Elopements may be smaller… but they still need thoughtful planning.

After photographing many elopements, I’ve seen the same mistakes come up again and again. The good news? Every single one of them is avoidable.

Let’s make sure your elopement is stress-free, intentional, and unforgettable.

Mistake #1: Choosing a Location Only Because It Looks Good on Instagram

This is the BIGGEST one.

Couples fall in love with a location online without realizing:

• It may require permits

• It may be extremely crowded

• It may be inaccessible in wedding attire

• The lighting may not work at ceremony time

• Weather may be unpredictable

  
  

A place can be beautiful online and still not work well for an actual wedding experience.

Instead, consider:

• Accessibility and hiking distance

• Sunrise vs sunset lighting

• Seasonal weather patterns

• Crowd levels

• Privacy and ceremony rules

The best elopement locations are not just pretty — they’re practical.

Mistake #2: Forgetting About Permits and Regulations

Many scenic locations require permits for ceremonies and professional photography.

Common permit locations include:

• National parks

• State parks

• Beaches

• Scenic overlooks

• Public lands

  
  

Skipping this step can lead to fines, canceled ceremonies, or being asked to leave mid-vows (yes, it happens).

Always research:

• Ceremony permits

• Photography permits

• Guest count limits

• Drone restrictions

This step protects your entire experience.

Mistake #3: Planning the Timeline Around Convenience Instead of Light

Lighting is everything for photography — and for the overall feel of your day.

Midday ceremonies often mean:

• Harsh sun

• Squinting eyes

• Hot temperatures

• Busy crowds

  
  

The most magical elopements happen during:

• Sunrise

• Sunset

• Blue hour

When you plan your timeline around light, your entire day feels more romantic, relaxed, and cinematic.

Mistake #4: Trying to DIY the Entire Experience

Elopements are often marketed as “simple,” so couples try to plan everything alone.

But planning a destination experience includes:

• Locations

• Vendors

• Permits

• Timeline logistics

• Travel coordination

• Backup weather plans

This quickly becomes overwhelming.

Having experienced vendors who help guide the process removes stress and allows you to actually enjoy your wedding.

Mistake #5: Underestimating Travel and Logistics

A dreamy mountaintop ceremony sounds incredible — until you realize:

• The trail takes 2 hours to hike

• You need a backup weather plan

• Your dress needs to travel safely

• You need time to get ready nearby

• Transportation needs coordinating

Great elopements feel effortless because logistics were planned ahead of time.

Mistake #6: Forgetting to Plan the “In-Between” Moments

Many couples plan the ceremony… and nothing else.

But the magic of elopements lives in the full experience:

• Getting ready together

• First look

• Exploring your location

• Celebratory champagne

• Dinner together

• Watching the sunset

• Stargazing or bonfires

Your elopement isn’t just a ceremony — it’s an entire day of memories.

Mistake #7: Not Including Family in a Way That Feels Right

Many couples feel stuck between:

• Eloping privately

• Having a big wedding

But there are so many middle options:

• Invite immediate family

• Plan a reception later

• Have a second celebration at home

• Share letters or video messages

• Host a post-elopement dinner

You don’t have to choose one or the other.

Mistake #8: Booking Vendors Too Late

Popular elopement destinations book quickly — especially photographers and hair & makeup artists.

Many couples start planning and assume they have plenty of time… then realize their dream team is already booked.

If you have a specific location or season in mind, it’s best to begin early.

The Truth About Planning an Elopement

Elopements are beautifully simple — but the best ones are also thoughtfully planned.

When logistics are handled ahead of time, your day feels:

• Relaxed

• Emotional

• Present

• Joyful

Exactly how a wedding day should feel.

Planning Your Own Elopement?

You don’t have to figure it all out alone.

I help couples plan intentional, stress-free elopements — from location ideas and timeline creation to capturing every meaningful moment with photo, video and drone.

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-Rachel

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